THREE WAYS OF LIVING YOUR LIFE

Life is a beautiful gift from God . It's full of sudden situations , unbelievable circumstances , love , care and those little things which we love to see around us and be happy about them.

Though life is also filled with sorrows and heartbreaks but it's only upto us that how we react to these kind of situations , when we face them ? Because every person is different and they have their different ways of handling a situation. 
Suppose there are 1000 people and they are put in a same situation then that situation would be dealt in 1000 different ways . Can you imagine that there would be 1000 different ways of finding a solution to a problem?  Some would go for a wise decision and some would go for a heartbreaking one , depending upon there circumstances .
But no matter how hard your life is because I've got 3 ways of living your life . 
    
     So here they are.....

1 -NEVER UNDERESTIMATE YOURSELF -

There  are people , I've come across , who doesn't think highly of themselves and 75% of them have problems with their looks and this , according  to me , is the most stupid reason . I don't know why people underestimate themselves and loose confidence just because of their looks ? They don't understand the fact that they are created in the most beautiful way by God . And whatever is done by God himself can never be wrong and their must be some expedience for us .

But we are surely responsible for our doings and since every human is gifted with same amount and quality of brain therefore it's all upto us that were and how wisely we use our brains and how we bring out the good in ourselves . Most importantly you must learn to respect and love yourselves because unless you'll respect yourself then why would others do..?? Unless and until you believe in yourself why would others do ?  

I would just like to say that never underestimate yourself because no one can even be compared to you because you are the only one in this entire universe . 

2 - HAVE PATIENCE - 

In your day to day life you may come across those situations where you get hurt , sad , you cry , sometime you might feel like killing yourselves or something really close to it . But in all these kind of situation you forget about one thing . And trust me if you if you try to follow this one thing  , your perspective of looking at your life will change completely and someday you will be the happiest person on this earth . 

That one thing is -- PATIENCE ( SABR )

And who doesn't know that God loves patience and also the ones who have it ? Anything bad happens to you , have patience , anything bad comes to you , have patience ; because everything or everyone who has done bad to you or hurt you would be taken revenge and God will take revenge from them and you don't  need to worry about anything because when you believe in the almighty he is definitely by your side . 

3 - FORGIVE PEOPLE - 

This is actually the most important one because unless you follow this one you won't be able to move on in your life . And of course a famous quote would surely justify this point 

 "HATE THE SIN NOT THE SINNERS" . 

There are many people who come in our life and we without wasting our time give them a special place and happily allow them to hurt us and when they do we turn into a rebel until they die . 

We get so busy in taking our revenge that we totally forget about our relations with the person . Sometimes we don't even care to think that has he commited the sin by mistake or was forced to do so by someone or he has done it knowingly or unknowingly ? And in all these things we fail to realise that he has come to us to teach a lesson . Although you trusted the person who let you down yet he might have thought you a lesson , it could be anything   . 

Just remember that whoever belongs to you will always come back to you no matter how much time has passed . But those who doesn't belonged to you and had already left you , would have definitely taught you a lesson . So all you can do is forgive the person and try to forgive his sin and let him go because it's not you who was left bare handed , you had a wonderful lesson with you and a really adventurous experience . It's that person who had lost you and was left barehanded . So you should actually feel sorry for him .

So these were the 3 beautiful ways of living your life .

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IS IT REALLY NECESSARY....??

The only fact , which I believe is , whoever has come to the world has to die and go to his grave . No matter rich or poor everyone has to go to his own grave , all alone . The point is how well you have prepared to meet your lord , the creator of this entire universe and every other thing which is beyond my knowledge.

There are people who have/are  wasted/wasting  their lives just doing nothing and complaining about everything . The actual thing which lacks in them is their  will power . The will power to do something and to live their lives for the benefit of others . These kind of people doesn't have any missions or plans for their lives and for that very reason they don't even live for themselves.
This lack of will power leads them to nowhere and they have no deeds , neither bad nor good , left for themselves , to save them on the day of judgement.

They just keep trying to figure out the purpose of their lives and not being able to achieve that the only option left for them is --- SUICIDE.
They doesn't even think about the consequences of their act .  They doesn't even think about their family and friends which they leave behind , all shattered and destroyed . They doesn't  even fear that they have nothing with them with which they can face God . Like a coward , they just quit this world because they think that they won't be able to make it .
Refrain from doing it and do not kill yourselves , surely God is most merciful to you.

It's not necessary to have a perfect life but what's actually necessary is that to lead a life which when you think about brings a smile to your face.
Every person on this earth have several problems in their lives but they also have moments which have a lots of happiness , no matter big or small but they do exists . It's all upto you that from which point you enjoy having a look at your life .
Just try to  collect those small moments of happiness and let the sad part go away and a day will surely come when you will find , in your heart , a box filled with happiness ; a treasure which can neither be lost nor can be robbed away .
Try to built a habbit of looking at the brighter side of everything trust me , you will find more reasons to live than to quit.
If you really hate your life just change your way of living it and remember that diamonds are created under great pressure from dirty coal .

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THE MOST PRECIOUS GIFT I'VE EVER RECEIVED.......

Trust me it's from God...

People usually say that God cannot be every where so he created mothers instead...
But what I think is that , God is every where and to live he created a beautiful house known as mothers.
People don't  value her much but the reality is that she is the only one worth to be valued the most.
You can earn everything in this world like money , respect and love . But the only thing you fail to earn is care . The care which she is  willing to offer. But you refuse to accept it , even for free , and take her for granted.
Think about it seriously because if time passes and she leaves your side then you will regret  it for your entire life.

Whenever you return your home disheartened  ( for any reason ) and every one leaves your side , even the one whom you thought would be by your side also leaves you and you have no hope . At that moment , the only person who is by your side , in the form of hope , is only and only your mother . The one about whom you never thought seriously .
You never thought what she wanted or was there anything that she needed , maybe her medicine or anything.
This very point of mine proves that whatever she does for you is unconditional.
The care that she offers you cannot be offered to you by any other person in this world.
All I want to say is just give her your time , the love she desires and the respect she deserves . Just tell her how important she is to you .
Just try to follow this and trust me the world will change for you . Success will automatically come to you . Don't waste your time and go to her right away.

So this is what I regard as the most precious gift I've ever received ---- MY MOTHER.

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HOW TO FEEL RICH...??

Sometimes to be successful you don't need to be a multi millionaire because after being rich , also people are not fully satisfied with what they are because they want more.
But according to me the simplest way to feel rich is to bring a smile  on someone's face.  Just do anything ,  something small ,  help them or say those words which the person sitting right infront of you is longing to hear.  Because if those words or those gestures are able to bring even a small smile on that person's face then you will feel something which we can call a million dollar feeling.

Sometimes even I do some of those mockable things on which people are bound to laugh ,
they call me a joker but it doesn't really matter to me after seeing those pretty , little smiles on their faces . I just feel like I've just conquered the entire world.
Trust me if you are successful in bringing the smallest smile on someone's face then it will give you that satisfaction for which you might be looking for.
All the money stuff will loose their significance in your eyes if you experience this kind of a feeling because as the time passes money can be taken away but time cannot take away the wealth that is treasured in your hearts forever.

So this according to me was the simplest way to feel rich.
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DEEPEST FEAR - MINE IS TO LOOSE SOMEONE WHO IS NEAR AND DEAR TO ME

Sometimes it's really hard to even think of losing your loved one . No matter who the person is but what actually matters is that how would your life be without that one person for whom you cared  for ,  to whom you loved the most.
Thinking of this very topic a shiver passes down my spine because I cannot ignore the fact that whoever has come to the world has to die. It could either be me or someone very dear to me .

Sometimes literally I have prayed to God that I should die before my loved ones because it's simply impossible to even think of my life without them.
Without them my life would be like those empty boxes which were once filled with treasure but now are empty and has no value.
People say that the passing time is the best healer but according to me it only strengthens the bond that we share.
I really don't know how would it feel to do something alone which you once use to do with them. I have not came across it yet and I really pray to God that I should  never come across this feeling.

But this the deepest fear I had .
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